You see, my dear, we promised to be here for each other this year and not keep secrets. I have just cracked the code on how to know you’re dating a ‘man of the people’, so I’m here to spill the tea.
English people call them Casanovas – a man with many lovers.
You’re there, thinking you’re building a future with the one your heart beats for. But his heart beats for you and five others… Chai. In today’s masterclass, I’ll show you how to know you’re not the only one he’s dating.
- He’s Incredibly Charming—Almost Too Much
A Casanova knows how to sweep people off their feet. He’s smooth with his words, makes you feel like the most special person in the world, and seems to always know exactly what to say. If his compliments feel rehearsed or overly polished, take note.
- He Moves Fast in Relationships
Does he shower you with affection too soon? Love-bombing—overwhelming you with attention, gifts, and sweet words early on—is a classic Casanova move. He makes you feel like you’re “the one” almost instantly.
- He’s Mysterious About His Past
Ask about his previous relationships, and he either avoids the topic, gives vague answers, or makes it seem like all his exes were crazy. A Casanova rarely wants you to dig into his past because it might reveal a pattern of short-lived romances.
- He’s Always Surrounded by Admirers
Does he always have women around him? A Casanova enjoys attention and tends to keep a roster of admirers. If he’s constantly texting or getting flirty comments on social media, he might not be as exclusive as he claims.
- He’s a Master at Excuses
When you question him about his whereabouts or why he took hours to respond, he always has a perfectly crafted excuse. “I fell asleep,” “I was super busy,” or “My phone died” are standard lines.
- He Dislikes Labels
If he avoids defining your relationship or gets uncomfortable when you bring up exclusivity, he might be keeping his options open. A Casanova thrives in the “undefined” phase to maintain his freedom.
- He’s Overly Private With His Phone
If he never lets his phone out of his sight, flips it upside down when he’s with you or gets defensive when you ask about it, he’s probably hiding something.
- You Have a Gut Feeling
Sometimes, your instincts tell you what you need to know. If something feels off—like he’s too good to be true, or there’s an unspoken distance—trust that feeling.
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If you realize you’re with a casanova, you have two choices: enjoy the ride (if you’re not looking for anything serious) or walk away if you want real commitment.
But whether you’re walking away or not, please ensure he gets you a Valentine’s gift. Do not walk away before Valentine’s Day. I repeat, do not walk away before Valentine’s Day. It’s just around the corner, and you don’t want to be left out of the ‘Awwwn’ happening that day.
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